To fish or not!

My first time being wasted all my effort just to go fishing when i found out i was just "tagging along" rather than being part of the plan just because somebody and he said something that really,really turned me off.Have you ever been on a trip where you were referred as just "you" rather than "we" as in you with your friends who were involved?The whole plan now is changed in order to keep it going.The other friend has now changed his mind from "refused to go" to "to go" and i feel superbly bad if i ever "misbehave" during the trip as he actually complained about me and even feel worse after me knowing that he refused to go initially was because i'm going and now he changed his mind.i'm going to see him.it's hard to hang out with friend's friends.Now i know why he is still single!